The Art of Female Domination                                                                                           

This is a fantastic class for all aspiring Dommes!

On day one you will learn:

Poise, Presence and persona.

If you have been a dominant by personality for most, not all, of your life, this will just fine tune what you want out of your kink.

If you want to role play dominance in your kink life, here are so tips.

We will start with how you want to be perceived. What do you want to stand for, what do you want to get out of your kink and the BDSM experience?

What you wear, how you move, and carry yourself is more important than you think. You are seen from the moment you enter a room, do it with panache!

Who are you in your kink? Are you the grand Fem Domme? The sweet home body who turns into a spitfire with a crop? Are you the butch dyke wanting to impress with your best? Bring these traits forward, make them stronger and more loud, even in quiet ways.

Bring your questions and ideas!

On Day Two:

We will be teaching you the different skill sets to make you proficient! This is a partial list of skills that will be taught, as time permits.

Collars, Cuffs and Leashes

Paddling

Spanking

Impact Play

Pressure Point

Pinching and Scratching

Flogging

Caning and Rods

Electricity

This is a 2 day class. There will be an hour lunch break. Please bring what every you need for taking notes.

Purchase tickets here
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-art-of-female-dominance-tickets-1544721065289?aff=oddtdtcreator

Seats for this class in very limited, getting your tickets early will be important for this class.       

for those that want to learn the fine art of whipping

90 minutes- Lecture/Demo/Hands on
Loud, dramatic, and undeniably sexy—whips can feel like the rockstars of the BDSM toy bag. But behind every satisfying crack is a foundation of control, safety, and intentionality. This beginner-friendly class demystifies the world of single tails whips, and beyond. You’ll learn how to wield them safely, strike with purpose, and communicate confidently whether you're cracking in the dungeon or romancing the air. No prior experience needed—just curiosity, caution, and a sense of adventure!

What to bring:
-Whip if you have one. Some will be available if you don't have one.
-Safety glasses (prescription glasses are fine). Limited number available.
-Wide brim hat if you have one.

Presenter bio:
Joker brings approximately 20 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle and 13 years of active community involvement in the South Sound region to the art of the whip. A proud member of the South Sound Leather Alliance, he approaches whip play with respect, rhythm, and a deep understanding of its seductive power. As a Sadist, Joker thrives on the dance of pain and pleasure, using the whip not just as a tool, but as an extension of connection and control. His Whip 101 class focuses on building confidence, technique, and trust—from the first crack to the final kiss of leather.

What to bring:
-Whip if you have one. Some will be available if you don't have one.
-Safety glasses (prescription glasses are fine). Limited number available.
-Wide brim hat if you have one.

Presenter bio:
Joker brings approximately 20 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle and 13 years of active community involvement in the South Sound region to the art of the whip. A proud member of the South Sound Leather Alliance, he approaches whip play with respect, rhythm, and a deep understanding of its seductive power. As a Sadist, Joker thrives on the dance of pain and pleasure, using the whip not just as a tool, but as an extension of connection and control. His Whip 101 class focuses on building confidence, technique, and trust—from the first crack to the final kiss of leather.
https://fetlife.com/_JOKER_

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/crack-into-it-tickets-1571713821349?aff=oddtdtcreator                                                                                                           

End of Summer Pool party with a twist. Lube wrestling and wading pool for play with potluck BBQ

Well Kinksters it's that time of year where we start to put away the skimpy clothes and swimsuits... But wait!! Before you bring out the sweaters and flannels Lets Have one more Pool Party.
Do to the popularity of our last big event, "A flamboyant affair" We are bringing back one more Lube wrestling Pool and adding a second wading pool.
.Lube wrestling pool is for wrestling and well just fun rolling around with you partner in a safe space full of lube. (No glitter this time!)
.Wading Pool is for chilling or scening in. If you have ever wanted to try water sceneing this is your opportunity. Daddy Joe @ImIntense Will be doing a demonstration for your entertainment.
This party is all about the skimpy sexy clothes that you have that you may or may not had the opportunity to wear this summer. Don't have anything skimpy to wear? We got you covered! Swing by the store and look at our selection.
Just so we are clear, We want everyone to wear something skimpy. Tops and bottoms. Giggles. All genders and orientations are includes in this one. We here @LoversLair Think our party goers are beautiful people and we are looking to celebrate that.
We are a very body positive safe space. We Will not tolerate body shaming.
This is also a BBQ. Please bring a dish or a plate to share. Aka Potluck. Yes we will have outlets if you bring a crock pot. We are also accepting Grill donations as well. You can bring your favorite grilling meat, poultry or "Impossible food" for our vegan and vegetarian friends

Yes Lady Linda will be wearing something skimpy. So trust me when she said "They better be in something very sexy and skimpy if I am going to have to wear this thing"!!! you better be wearing something scandalous.

Orientation for new people is at 830 pm. Party starts at 9pm.
Remind This is a 21 year old and older party.
Please remember to park south of the store. In the parking lot.                                                       

We will announce the winner on this day

We now have New stickers!!! But wait there's more!
The challenge.
Come up with the most unique way to get the most likes and win a prize. Here is how to do it.
step 1. Come to the store and pick up a couple of stickers.
step 2. Place the sticker where it will be seen by many. And gets the most attention.
step 3. Take a picture of where you stuck the sticker.
step 4. Post picture on your page and tag the store.
Step 5. On Sept 1, the one that has the most likes wins the prize. Winner must be present at the Sept 5th party to receive there prize!
So I bet you want to know what the prize is.. Well we haven't decided yet. It could be anything from a store gift card, to clothing, maybe a toy, or even maybe a free dungeon rental.
It really depends on how well this works. We encourage people to use their imaginations, and be as creative as you wish. We know we h 

This class is going to be very hot.. you dont want to miss this one.

Class Description: Flame On! Spark Your BDSM Play with "High heat" Wand Play & "HOT" Cupping
60 minutes- Lecture/Demo
Step into the heat and let your senses ignite. This tantalizing class teaches you how to wield High heat" wands and master "HOT" cupping with confidence and care—turning flames into a dance of pleasure and power. Feel the thrill of scorching sensation, the rush of trust, and the deep connection that only this kind of play can spark. Whether you crave to tease or torment, this is your gateway to seductive, elemental play that leaves a mark… in more ways than one.

Bio- With over two decades in the kink lifestyle and 13 years in the local South Sound scene, Joker lights up the room—literally. As a Sadist with a flair for edge play and an active member of the South Sound Leather Alliance, he brings both temperature and finesse to the art of flame. In "High heat" Play 101, Joker teaches the essentials of safety, technique, and sensual pacing, ensuring that heat is delivered with care, consent, and a healthy respect for risk. Come learn how to wield fire as a tool of connection, transformation, and intensity.
https://fetlife.com/_JOKER_

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/flame-on-tickets-1571804823539?aff=oddtdtcreatorave some amazing talented people in our community.
All we ask is that you don't harm yourself or un-consensual harm others in this challenge and that you don't break any laws in doing this challenge.                                                                                                                       

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